Toddler Temper Tantrums
Temper tantrums – all toddlers go through this stage. It is just a part of growing up. As toddlers cannot express themselves fully it is acted out in their behavior – otherwise known as “temper tantrums”.
Even though they are expected, you can still take steps to try to make them less painful for you and your child:
- Try to figure out the triggers, what will set them off?
- Once a tantrum starts, it is often hard to stop ( a little like a train!)
- Stand your ground – Once you give into your child, they have taken control.
- Make sure your child is safe.
- Teach alternatives – Encourage him/her to find a more effective way of responding.
- Respond immediately – don’t wait for repeated behaviors to occur.
- Reward good behavior (positive reinforcement)
- Provide an opportunity to let off steam – outside playtime is ideal.
- Seek help from professionals – don’t be afraid to ask.
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